Phone-Free Travel: Why We Collect Phones and What Happens

One of the most common questions families ask us is about phones.

Will my teen have their phone?
How will I know they are okay?
What happens if there is an emergency at home?
What if my teen is anxious about handing it over?

Those are fair questions.

RLT trips are intentionally phone-free. That does not mean families are cut off. It means communication moves through the leaders and RLT office instead of through each student’s personal device.

Here is how it works.

What happens on Day 1

Students may travel with a phone for arrival and departure communication.

Once the group has arrived and students have had the chance to check in with their parents, leaders collect phones and personal electronics. Devices are stored securely and returned on departure day.

This includes phones, tablets, gaming devices, music devices, and smartwatches.

Digital cameras and GoPros are welcome as long as they do not connect to the internet.

Why we collect phones

This is not a punishment.

It is part of how the trip is designed.

RLT programs are built around group participation. Frequent calls, texts, scrolling, music, and notifications pull students out of the experience and back into everything happening at home.

Without phones, students have to do something different.

They talk to each other at dinner.
They ask leaders questions.
They pay attention on the trail, in the van, at the service site, and around camp.
They sit with the awkward first few days instead of disappearing into a screen.

That is where a lot of the group connection starts.

Not all at once. Not perfectly. But more honestly than it can when every student has an escape hatch in their pocket.

How families stay in touch

Families do not contact students through their personal phones during the trip.

You stay connected through RLT.

Families receive written email updates during the program. These updates give an overview of what the group has been doing and include highlights from each participant.

Photos are uploaded to a shared online gallery every few days when connectivity and trip location allow.

Students also have a mid-trip phone call with family through a leader’s phone. The RLT office emails families ahead of time so you know when to expect it.

If something important comes up at home, you call RLT. Our on-call team is available 24/7 during trips.

If something important happens on the trip, the trip team contacts RLT, and RLT contacts you.

What if my teen is homesick or anxious?

Homesickness and anxiety can happen on any teen trip.

The answer is not constant texting. The answer is support from the people who are actually with your teen.

Trip leaders are trained to notice how students are doing. They see who is quiet at breakfast, who is pulling back from the group, who seems tired, who is frustrated, and who might need a check-in.

Students are also encouraged to talk directly with their leaders when something feels hard.

That can be uncomfortable at first, especially for students who are used to texting a parent every time something goes wrong. But it is part of the experience: learning to name what is happening, ask for help, and work through a hard moment with support.

What this means for parents

You will not be able to text your teen good morning on Day 3.

You will not get a real-time answer to “How was rafting?” or “Did you sleep okay?”

That can be hard.

You will still receive updates. You will see photos when the group has enough connectivity to upload them. You will have access to RLT if something important comes up. And your teen will be with leaders whose job is to watch the group closely.

For some families, the phone-free policy is the hardest part to accept before the trip.

Afterward, it is often one of the parts they understand best.

Questions families often ask

Can my teen bring a camera?

Yes. Digital cameras and GoPros are welcome as long as they do not connect to the internet.

Can my teen use their phone while traveling?

Yes. Phones are permitted and encouraged for arrival and departure communication. Leaders collect phones after students arrive and have the chance to check in with parents.

How will I know my teen is okay?

Families receive written updates during the trip, photos when uploads are possible, and a mid-trip phone call through a leader’s phone. RLT also provides as-needed updates if something noteworthy arises.

How do I reach my teen in a family emergency?

Call RLT. Our on-call team is available 24/7 during trips. We will contact the trip team and help arrange communication.

What if my teen uses a medical device connected to a phone?

Tell us during enrollment and include it clearly in the medical forms. Medical needs should be discussed with RLT before the trip so the team can plan appropriately.

What if my teen is worried about giving up their phone?

That is worth talking about before the trip. We do not need students to be thrilled about the policy on Day 1. We do need them to understand that phone-free group participation is part of the program.

When does my teen get their phone back?

Phones and personal electronics are returned on departure day.

Talk with us

If the phone policy is the part you are most worried about, schedule a call.

We can walk through how communication works, what updates families receive, what happens in an emergency, and how leaders support students during the first few phone-free days.

Schedule a call

Laura Dunmire